Ever caught yourself thinking some people are just “natural born leaders”? Let’s challenge that assumption today and explore why leadership is actually a skill anyone can develop with the right mindset and approach.

The Myth vs. Reality

The idea that “leaders are born, not made” gets tossed around frequently in business circles. But this perspective limits our potential growth. While some people may appear naturally confident due to their upbringing or environment, true leadership is developed through intentional practice and experience.

Three Key Leadership Truths

Leadership Skills Can Be Developed Leadership skills—from emotional intelligence to strategic thinking—can be learned and refined over time. When facing challenges with your team, remember that growth starts with your own development.

Experiences Shape Leadership Some of my greatest leadership lessons came from difficult experiences. Even poor leadership examples teach valuable lessons about what not to do. Every experience contributes to the leader you’re becoming.

Great Leaders Improve and Adapt Leadership isn’t about overnight transformation. The best leaders commit to continuous improvement through reading, podcasts, coaching relationships, and deliberate practice.

Your Leadership Journey

Success as a leader is optional—it depends on the choices you make today. Consider areas where you need growth, identify resources or mentors who can help, and commit to steady improvement.

Remember: Leaders aren’t born with special genes—they’re made through dedication to the journey.

About Monday Myth Check 

Monday Myth Check is a weekly dose of reality where Jono Brake holds up commonly held leadership beliefs and asks the question “What if this was not true”. You can find the weekly videos and other posts by following Jono Brake on  LinkedIn or following The Forged Leader, as well as on Youtube @jonobrake.

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